The loss of a pet can be as profound and painful as the loss of a human loved one, yet it is often misunderstood and invalidated by society. The article introduces Beth Bigler, a certified pet loss and grief counselor and the founder of Honoring Our Animals. Through her personal experience of losing her beloved cat, Arnie, Bigler realized the importance of being supported through this “sacred grief” and made it her mission to ensure no one feels alone or ashamed in their mourning.
The Art of Grieving: Honoring the Bond
Bigler’s approach to grief counseling is unconventional and deeply empathetic. She believes that grief is not something to be “fixed” but rather a process to be moved through. Her sessions provide a space for grieving pet owners to fully feel their sorrow without judgment. She also helps her clients find new ways to honor the bond with their “fur child,” from lighting candles to using their pet’s name in daily life. This practice is based on her belief that love doesn’t end when a physical presence does; it simply evolves.
A Resource for Grieving Pet Parents
To further her mission, Bigler has authored a book titled Honoring Our Animals, which provides daily meditations for grieving pet parents. She also offers support through her Instagram page, which serves as a daily “balm for hearts in mourning.” Her work is a testament to the idea that the grief we feel for a pet is a valid and powerful form of love, and making peace with it is a key step toward healing.
